I've been pondering again why so often we are so drawn to our smart phones instead of to other human beings.
MIT professor Sherry Turkle, author of both Alone Together: Why We Expect More from Technology and Less from Each Other (2012) and Reclaiming Conversation: The Power of Talk in a Digital Age (2015) emphasizes
(by my reading) how technology invades and prevents true human community. Tech often gets in the way of true conversation and empathy.
In my hometown, there’s a
phone app developed by Chico State grads, PocketPoints, which rewards its users
if they turn off the phone during college classes. As they state clearly on
their website,
“Phone addiction is a pervasive problem.”
A friend—a younger
friend at that—cannot help but notice that, during a quick stretch break I
usually offer my students in the middle of lectures, the students quietly text
their friends or check their social media instead of meeting the people right
in their vicinity. He’s rather blunt at this: “Why wouldn’t these guys want to
know all the gorgeous girls that are all around them?”
Or as Turkel puts it:
"Texting offers just the right amount of access, just the right amount of control. She is a modern Goldilocks: for her, texting puts people not too close, not too far, but at just the right distance. The world is now full of modern Goldilockses, people who take comfort in being in touch with a lot of people whom they also keep at bay."
Indeed. We feel
anxious about messy conversations in real time, with real people, and thus more comfortable “connecting” virtually. And—though I doubt this is true in my classes—my students are probably just a bit bored.
Boredom and anxiety—that
potent combination which together make the German word angst and the French version ennui—propel
us toward our cell phones like the proverbial moth to flame. The little shot of
dopamine that’s released as we are stimulated by the next scream has addictive
qualities. And so we continue. Angst stimulates our flight toward cell
phones. And so it is particularly with emerging adults, who were given screens
to quiet them as fussy babies. Such earlier training is sticky and
recalcitrant.
The lurking question is what will retrain us. But I'll leave that unanswered for now...
